Whether relationships are with your family, friends, foster carers or a Boyfriend or Girlfriend, they should make you feel good!

Our Thrive panel of young people gave us some ideas about what makes a relationship healthy or harmful.

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Good signs

  • You spend quality time together but are also happy to be apart
  • They listen to you when you’re upset
  • You feel like you can be yourself
  • You understand each other
  • You respect each other
  • You have fun together

Warning signs

  • They buy you lots of presents – especially after you’ve argued
  • They sometimes make you feel guilty
  • They’re violent towards you
  • They’re jealous of you
  • They call you names
  • They lie
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REMEMBER!

Everyone deserves to be respected, feel safe and be cared for.